February 19, 2009
Matching Game To Catch Him And Keep Him
Dating is not a matching game. You are not out there to find a suitable match for yourself, to catch him and keep him, are you? You are there to find someone you could spend quality time with and also have a few nice moments. Whether or not this encounter concretes into anything lasting is best left to the future. So, the first and the foremost, do not start with mindset of getting Mr. Right for yourself because in that case you are most likely to get nervous at the very sight of someone who even remotely looks like something of the proverbial ‘knight in the shining armor’. And if you got nervous, you would look like a babe in the woods rather than a woman of substance. Believe me, there is nothing quite as unexciting for men as a woman who falls so readily. Forget not, men are chasers and how much value they place upon the ‘catch’ depends upon how long they had to struggle to get it. So, relax, hold your head up, and walk on like you don’t care if the world was to end in a few moments.